Psychodynamic Psychotherapist Relationship & Psychosexual (Sex) Psychotherapist

Director - BA (Hons), PGDIP UKCP, COSRT

Couples and Individuals

Gity offers deep psychological support and helps uncover the root causes of anxiety and hidden patterns that impact relationships. She empowers you to overcome shame and guilt, fostering deeper self-connection and healthier, more intimate relationships.

About

Relationships—whether intimate or professional—are at the heart of our connection and fulfilment. Yet, anxiety, fear, and unresolved patterns can create barriers that leave us feeling stuck, unseen, or disconnected—not just from others but from ourselves. These challenges, manifesting as self-doubt, fear of intimacy, or inadequacy, make authentic connections and lasting change feel out of reach.

Gity works with individuals and couples to uncover the root of these struggles and repetitive life patterns, helping them reclaim their desires and create meaningful, lasting change. Through a compassionate, non-judgmental approach, Gity provides a safe space to explore anxieties, transform limiting beliefs, and build deeper, more fulfilling connections.

Individual Therapy

Gity specialises in providing support for:

  • Life Transitions: Navigating significant changes, such as career shifts, relationship transitions, or personal transformations, with clarity and confidence.

  • Loss and Grief: Offering guidance through the emotional impact of losing a loved one, facing professional setbacks, or navigating relational challenges.

  • Self-Discovery: Helping individuals reconnect with their authentic selves, rediscover their passions, and create meaningful, lasting change in their lives.

  • Stress and Anxiety Management: Supporting clients in managing overwhelming emotions, developing resilience, and finding inner calm amidst life’s pressures.

  • Identity and Purpose: Assisting individuals in exploring questions of identity, purpose, and self-worth, fostering a deeper understanding of who they are and what they want from life.

  • Emotional Healing: Addressing unresolved emotions, past traumas, and relational patterns to help clients move forward with renewed strength and clarity.

Relationships - Couples Therapy

Relationships aren’t built on luck—they’re built on skill. Gity helps couples cut through emotional gridlock, break free from cycles of blame and disconnection, and reignite intimacy. She guides partners to confront hard truths with compassion, speak honestly without fear, and turn toward each other with curiosity instead of criticism. Whether facing fading desire, sexual challenges, or the weight of life’s inevitable complications, Gity offers practical tools to rebuild trust, deepen communication, and create a relationship that feels alive, passionate, and resilient.

  • Helping Couples Break Free from Stuck Patterns: When relationships hit a wall—whether through emotional disconnection, cycles of conflict, or the weight of unspoken resentment—Gity helps couples break free. She provides direct, compassionate guidance to rebuild trust, improve communication, and move past old dynamics that no longer serve them. Through honest conversations and practical tools, partners learn to reconnect, show up for each other, and create a relationship that feels alive and fulfilling again.

  • Rekindling Passion and Intimacy: When the spark fades, it’s not a sign to walk away—it’s a call to lean in. Gity helps couples break through emotional and physical barriers, rebuild desire, and create a deeper, more engaged connection. By fostering honesty, vulnerability, and mutual care, partners learn to turn toward each other again—reigniting the passion and closeness they once had.

Psychosexual (Sex) Therapy

Gity supports individuals and couples in navigating the complexities of their sexual lives, addressing barriers to intimacy, and fostering a positive, fulfilling connection with their sexual selves. Her approach helps clients move beyond shame, fear, or discomfort, empowering them to experience pleasure, confidence, and authentic sexual expression.

Gity also has a specialist interest in onco-sexology, supporting individuals and couples affected by cancer to reclaim their sexual selves and rebuild intimacy. She understands the profound impact that illness and its treatments can have on desire, arousal, and identity and helps clients navigate these challenges with compassion and expertise. Her work is about more than overcoming dysfunction; it’s about rediscovering pleasure, connection, and the confidence to embrace one’s sexuality fully.

Her key areas of focus include:

  • Sexual Dysfunction: Addressing issues such as ejaculation difficulties, orgasmic challenges, desire discrepancies, vaginismus, and sexual concerns related to infertility.

  • Medical-Related Sexual Issues: Providing compassionate support for intimacy disruptions due to conditions such as cancer or post-SSRI sexual dysfunction.

  • Menopause and Sexual Health: Guiding women and couples through the physical and emotional impacts of menopause on sexual well-being.

  • Excessive Porn Use: Helping individuals and couples address compulsive behaviours and restore balance in their intimate lives.

  • Expanding Sexual Exploration: Encouraging couples to explore new dimensions of intimacy, including BDSM and kink, in a safe and supportive space.

  • Cross-Cultural Relationships: Gity supports individuals and couples in navigating the complexities and nuances of cross-cultural relationships, fostering understanding, communication, and mutual respect across different cultural backgrounds.

Memberships

  • Clinical Member of the British Psychoanalytic Council (BPC)

  • Clinical Member of the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP)

  • Professional Member of The Foundation for Psychotherapy and Counselling (FPC)

  • Working towards COSRT accreditation

Training

  • Advanced specialist Post Graduate Diploma in Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy at the Tavistock Relationships.

  • Post Graduate Diploma in Psychodynamic Theory and Practice, WPF Therapy / University of Roehampton, UK

  • Certificate in Psychosexual Therapy with world-renowned Tavistock Relationships.

  • Certificate Introduction to Individuals and Couples Therapy Tavistock Relationships. 

  • Advanced specialist training in Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy RLT

Honorary Positions in the NHS and charity foundations

  • Associate Psychosexual Therapist at the Jane Wadsworth Clinic at St. Mary’s Hospital in London.

  • Associate Perinatal Therapist at South London and Maudsley Trust.

  • City Pregnancy Counseling Psychotherapy Honorary Psychodynamic Psychotherapist

  • SPECIALISATION & AREAS OF INTEREST

    Psychodynamic Psychotherapy (Individuals)

    Relationship Therapy (Couples & Individuals)

    Psychosexual Psychotherapy (Couples & Individuals)

    Oncosexology - working with cancer and sexual health (Couples & Individuals)

    Reproductive difficulties due to psychosexual issues (Couples & Individuals)

    Reproductive Trauma / Birth Trauma